The Stuff of Life

chocolate cake
Two weeks ago while Sam was visiting, we threw a small dinner party. I think it was his idea, actually. I’d yet to have a get-together in my new-ish Oakland apartment and the thought of the two of us spending an afternoon cooking for a room full of my friends was pretty darn nice.


dinner party
Sam took charge of the hummus and tabbouleh; I made pork tenderloin and laid out cheeses and olives; we roasted asparagus and plum tomatoes. Sam made a great play-list and a few basil juleps to sip before everyone arrived. A drizzly evening, laughter and umbrellas, Proseco and champagne, and chocolate cake with a weighty sour cream frosting.

dinner partyBut beside the food, I just kept smiling as I looked around the room seeing everyone together with exactly enough chairs (barely) catching up with each others’ families, work drama, restaurant drama … all the stuff of life. All the stuff that needs to be shared, that begs to be shared. And after everyone goes home and you wash a few dishes and turn down the lights and look around your empty living room — you feel like you just can’t wait to do it all over again. The type of gathering that’s so often overshadowed by the busyness of our days, traveling for spring weddings and other obligations, or just plain ol’ deflation at the end of a long week. The type of gathering that should really happen more often around here.

At the end of the night, the light rain had stopped. Empty wine bottles were piling up. And a chocolate cake sat near a cracked window. And not just any chocolate cake. This is a cake I had made just days before for my mom’s 60th birthday party. And it’s a cake she’s made every single birthday since I can remember — for myself and my two sisters. It’s a cake I can’t quite believe I haven’t written about until now.

Sure, we’ve talked about Amanda Hesser’s Chocolate Dump-It Cake and some of you may have baked Smitten Kitchen’s Everyday Chocolate Cake or Ina Garten’s Beatty’s Chocolate Cake. But this one has them all beat. The key is beginning with 2 cups of sour cream. Then you add the perfect amount of cocoa powder and eggs, a little vanilla, a good dash of salt. And then,  the secret ingredient. The one people kind of puzzle over when you tell them. There it goes: the potato. Just do it. Don’t ask questions. The shredded potato and the sour cream make this cake one of the lighter, more eloquent chocolate cakes I’ve ever come across with the perfect depth of flavor and springy crumb. It’s a keeper. And in a land teeming with worthy chocolate cakes, that’s saying a lot.

I can’t credit this recipe’s origin because I’m not entirely sure where my mom got it. And she’s not either. It’s been scrawled on the same index card for quite some time and has undergone a few changes and tweaks throughout the years. As written, it makes a 9 x 13 cake but I tend to love layer cakes so I multiply the recipe by .5 to get enough batter to make a 9″ layer cake. Or you can do as my sister does and double the recipe so you have enough batter to bake off a second cake later in the week. The batter holds up surprisingly well for at least four days in the refrigerator. So go to town. Enjoy. Because visits from Seattle, dinner parties with friends, birthday dinners for mothers, and stellar chocolate cakes –the stuff of life– are something worth celebrating. Every day.

Chocolate Sour Cream Cake

Chocolate Sour Cream Cake

  • Yield: 10 Servings
  • Prep time:15mins
  • Cook time:35mins
  • Total time:50mins

Ingredients

Cake:

1 four-ounce russet potato, peeled and shredded
2 cups sour cream
1 3/4 cup cake flour
1 3/4 cup sugar
3/4 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, room temperature
2 large eggs
1 1/2 teaspoons baking soda
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon salt

Sour Cream Frosting:

2 1/2 cups powdered sugar
1/4 cup (1/2 stick) unsalted butter, room temperature
3 tablespoons sour cream
1 tablespoon vanilla extract

Instructions

Preheat oven to 350 F and butter a 9 x 13 inch pan. Dust with flour. Add all ingredients except the shredded potato into the bowl of a stand mixer fitted with a paddle attachment (or a large mixing bowl in which you’ll use hand beaters).

Turn on the mixer and beat for 2-3 minutes until batter is well-combined and silky. Add the shredded potato and stir in with a wooden spoon. Transfer mixture to prepared pan.

Bake until tester comes out clean, 35-40 minutes. Cool cake in pan on a wire rack before inverting and preparing to frost.

Make the frosting: Using the whisk attachment on a stand mixer (or traditional beaters), beat all frosting ingredients together until smooth, about two minutes.

Note: If you don’t finish it all in one evening, wrap with plastic wrap and leave room temperature for up to three days. The frosting will firm up quite a bit in the refrigerator, so if you’d prefer to store it there that’s fine as well.

Comments

  1. eM

    as much as I grouse about Seattle, the thing I love most about it (and the thing that makes me stay) is that these sort of gatherings actually happen quite often. The pace is slower, people take time for each other (at least the group of wonderful friends I have made do). I love it. (remind me of this comment in January -ok?)

  2. Danielle

    Thank you for having us, and cooking up such a feast. It's a bit of work to host a dinner party, but so worth it by the end of the night eh? We need to have one at our place sometime this summer! xo

  3. tracy

    thank you for helping me relive this moment! I truly had THE BEST TIME!!! Can't wait to see you soon. And that cake was pretty awesome!

    xoxo

    Tracy

  4. Kimberley

    Dinner parties are my absolute favorite way to spend time with people. And that cake is to die for. Reminds me that I've got my grandma's jam cake on my to-make list this summer.

    1. megang

      Kimberly-I will be on the look out for this jam cake of your grandmother's. Sounds spectacular!

  5. Janet

    I can attest to how delicious this cake was - and what a fun night we all had! Let's all do it again soon. :)

  6. Marilyn

    This looks so good, and the potato sounds just strange enough to be perfect. :-) Did you use two round cake pans or one?

  7. Lori

    Megan, Reading this post I was green with envy of your friends. How I would have loved to be a part of that gathering. It's great to read such happy reports.And a cake recipe to boot. Can't wait to try it. Thanks for sharing it and your story!

    1. megang

      Lori-
      It was a sweet little gathering; thanks for your comment! And yes, I think you'll like the cake very much. If you end up making it, let me know what you think.

  8. El

    Gad you had fun. Everything looks delicious!

  9. Mary

    Everything is gorgeous. Not just the food, but that lamp! And, yes, I must make that cake.

  10. kickpleat

    I'm so curious of that cake!! Potato?? Okay then, I'm sold. Your place looks amazing - just from the sneak peeks :) Hooray for a happy and wonderful day.

  11. Adriana

    I totally feel the need for those kind of gatherings too. I'm lucky enough that my close friends, live close as well and we can have silly nights of pork roast, wine and ice cream quite often. I'm won't ask any questions and I'll make this cake, potato included. It looks too gorgeous not to. Thanks for sharing!

  12. Crystal Malek

    This looks incredible! I'm all for recipes that include a little something strange. Makes them stand out from all the rest. So excited to try this!!

    Also, saw the article you posted over at Ashley's blog from the NY Times on technology and love. That was great!! Very insightful. Thanks for posting it.

  13. Anne Zimmerman

    I'm hoping for a taste of this cake from you someday. Sometimes that's what it takes, right? Just a taste to prove that something that sounds slightly odd is really the very best?

  14. Jessie

    for a second i thought it was a huge whoopie pie! it looks very very good!

  15. Joy

    I did a double take on the potato. I'll have to make this soon. When I have a break time from baking for others. :)

    So glad you are having the most marvelous of times. I just looked at your header again and I swear I saw "A Sweet Samful" for a second there. xo.

  16. Sherilyn @ Wholepromise

    This sounds like a wonderful get together. As as for the cake I am always on the look out for "that cake" recipe that you can trust time and time again to deliver. I think I may have just found it - so thank you. You have a lovely spot to visit here.

  17. Dixie Caviar

    You can never have too many chocolate cake recipes... Now I just need an excuse to add another to my collection. That shouldn't be too hard ;)

  18. lo

    I love posts like this that show exactly how food brings people together -- connecting them to their history, and allowing them to make new memories with new friends.

    And the chocolate cake doesn't look half bad either :)

  19. Nicole @ itsfeedingtimeatthezoo

    Thank you! I just spent yesterday trolling through my cookbooks trying to find a good recipe for chocolate sour cream cake, and voila, here it is!

    Lovely blog!

    N

  20. Val

    The potato does sound weird and I'm going to have to give this a try to see if that weirdness really does wear off once the cake is baked!

    I love the simple idea of turning a regular chocolate cake into a layered cake though. It adds that wow factor which you always want to achieve when guests are round.

  21. Erin

    We celebrated my mother's 61st birthday this past weekend. I came across your blog as I was searching for chocolate sour cream cake recipes. The potato intrigued me, but your story was what really sold me. The cake was absolutely delicious and moist. I tried a coconut buttercream icing with it. Mmmm! I will definitely add this to my recipes, and try it as a layer cake next time. Thank you!

    1. megang

      Fantastic, Erin! Thank you so much for reporting back; so glad you enjoyed the recipe.

  22. Gail

    Just found your site following a link on Pan and Ink - love this idea! Do you think I could sub a regular white potato, or does it have to be a russet? Something to do with the starch?

    1. megang

      Hi, Gail! No use a regular white potato, absolutely. It's not a fussy cake and it'll work just fine. Enjoy (and welcome!) ~mg

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